My Milestonesss!…

My Milestonesss!…

            In life I have seen people smiling at what they have left behind on the roads that they passed. But my question is do you need milestones to turn back with a smile?

            I have lived for a while. Have never left anything behind, I mean physical. What I did is between me, my emotions and maybe my dear ones.

            All my life I have turned back with a smile and I never had the need for a milestone to put that there. Everything I love is in my memory the life that I lived. And for that same reason I am very vulnerable to pain but I heal before the hurt actually becomes a wound.

            I think I know what you are thinking. “I get hurt”, “that same reason I am very vulnerable to pain” that part isn’t it. Getting hurt is not bad thing. It means you care you love that you have a heart. If it’s a bad thing then I have it bad. You might see successful people how don’t show emotions. Don’t approach anyone or anything emotionally. No Suvanears no relationships. Fine by me that your way of life, if you have a peace of mind and you are satisfied with life. If you live life the way, that you don’t keep anything for tomorrow because you don’t know if there is a tomorrow. Them it’s a fine way of living. Not me, I am not like that. My memories build me; they made me what I am. They are all with me. The man that I have become will stay the same, because I don’t have to turn back to remember how I am, where I came from.

            My life is My Milestone; My Path My Lessons; My Experiences My Teachings; My Love My Gift. That is why I write. What I know what ever I have learned is not just for me it’s for all those how ask for it. Learn what you can Share what you can. The world changes for the ones you are yet to come in this world. But the world changes because of the people who’ve lived in this world.

Angry is not a Bad Guy!!!......

Angry is not a Bad Guy!!.....

            Anger is a bad habit that everyone asks us to control. But it is after you get angry that you usually feel relieved; like a pressure cooker! Well it is there that if we get angry at some we love very much you get a feeling of guilt afterwards.
Also it is there that they might, not “will” just “might”; say that what you actually were thinking about me came out.

            Yes it is possible and that might be it but I say that need not always be the meaning of what they say. You see throughout life we get all sorts of experiences, and we are human and we have emotions, so we feel things. God also feels sorrow anger and maybe we can say a sort of regret. So, us feeling the same is not a crime.
So coming back, these feelings mould us and strengthen us. but this feeling of sadness doesn’t go away it just lies dormant till it gets a trigger. When we get angry all that happens is, all the sorrow that we have ever felt gets related to that single event. Everything that we understood will be forgotten, every happiness we have felt because of these sorrows will be forgotten.

            But when you think about is that a bad thing that people get angry. They trust you that much to release there pressure in front of you. Yes you do get angry at people the first time you see someone. That is when you are an open person. Or when your social commitment or when your sense of justice peaks out.

 Good!! Get angry like that!!

            Now I am going to tell you the most important thing of all. If you have any thought as to control your anger, Don’t do it if it gives you strain!
When people ask you to control your anger, you try very hard to do it. But when you do it, sometimes the strain builds up to a point when you lose control. Then at some point you explode violently at a very small provocation.

            Anger can and should be controlled, to a limit. It is so that your character appearance changes for the better. But reacting in the right situation will give you a better image, a clean conscience and most of all, peaceful thoughts. So basically getting angry is good when it is in the apt circumstance and it gives you much better stability than any other treatment.

            So now Tell Me! WHAT IS THE PROBLEM WITH ANGER? Or does the problem lie where and when we call him??
 

Simply put, “Anger Is Not a Bad Guy..!!”

LOST

LOST!!!!.......

There are times in life when you feel nothing, like you lost all the colours of the world. Like nothing seems to be of any value. When you make mistakes and it feels like neither is correction necessary nor is it a problem at all. When you feel that all that others feel, all that they say, all that they do are of no concern to you then you are lost.

There are several many things that can lead us to a conclusion, called LOST. Trust gives you these issues sometimes. When someone lies to you, when someone turns against you, when people don’t understand the good in what you do, when you are not appreciated. But the only real reason why you get lost is because you have given up on yourself.
Let me tell you an example, you have a very dear friend how is said to be in love with someone, you hear different comment and you confront them. You ask them both separately, and you get to different answers and you get confessed. Your trust in that friendship and everything related to that will seem pointless. Sometimes you even feel as a waste. This will keep coming at you till the point where you think to yourself “I trust……… more!” make that choices correctly and the state of LOST will seem kind of childish or a child’s play.

You don’t just get lost. When you think that it is all on you or it’s only about you and so on. That is when you lose control. That is when you give up and it feels like you are lost. Actually you should be happy when you get lost.
 Yes it is not a good state that you feel comfortable in but it’s a reminder, that there are mistakes in the past.

Ok look at it this way, when do you get lost? At a junction you made a wrong turn which lead to another wrong turn and so on. But you get sad that you are lost when you should be the happiest.
I know you didn’t get it.
OK!
When do you realize that you are lost? When you end up where you started. Well isn’t that a good thing. Instead of ending up it the wrong place you returned back home. I believe there is a homing system in each of us that keeps us on the right track, just in case we take the wrong turn. Our brain deals with the physical world while our mind deals with the decisions and other such things.
When you get lost and end up in the wrong place that is serious issue, you need not worry still all you need even then is heart to correct yourself, to listen to the correct advice, logic to understand the right and wrong. You will be just fine. I am sure.

You get lost when you make wrong choices; take wrong decisions when you end up back were you started. Try reconsidering your path, the ones you trust, the beliefs that lead you, the ideals that you follow anything and everything can be the cause. When you get lost have a heart to correct yourself and your life in the end will be a success. It will have a happy ending. Hope is not that simple a virtue that you can follow. Have it and you won’t need a map.

Success is never measured in eyes of others it is a belief, and getting LOST means you are getting there, you are on the right track, you are almost there.

The Sun and the Moon Fell in Love

The Sun and the Moon Fell in Love

In all that I have seen Love is a drive that was born out of a wish for completeness. Two singers two actors One with very serious anger management issues and one that is very calm, highly talented egoistic person with a simpleton who is about average.
In the first three cases you might have noted similarity than difference. Just think it’s a search for perfection. Just like one fine day when I found out that the Sun and Moon were in love.

The sun in all its grace power and size cannot cover the entire earth with its light. The moon, his lady love, take all that she gets from him and completes his job, without wish for a reward. They rarely see each other. Even if they do they never come close or get to say a word. Well actually that is not required even. Their Love is satisfactory enough for them. The moon we say it’s beautiful it’s charming and shower it with all sorts of flattery. Take Sun out of the equation; now tell me what the moon is!

The sun holds everything in position and the moon keeps a close watch on everything. Now that’s a family. The sun treats the moon as an equal. You know why I saw that? What Happens at the time of an eclipse. The Moon with its small size covers the Sun. But now look at the Sun it want everyone to see his Lady Love He treats him equally, but does not back out from his responsibilities. I mean Just see, during the time of an eclipse we don’t go blind.

Now see them working together, tides! You know them right. They don’t just sustain their relationship the keep up to their responsibilities. They take care of others around them. They don’t complain to each other. Most important of all they change with time but they never change their attitude.

The sun gives us the bright colours of the day and the moon gives us the glittering star light, peaceful times, sparkling waters and cool breeze. They gave days for our all of us, now it’s our job to live it to the fullest. The sacrifice of true love built this world now live in true love to sustain it.