Peace!!!......

Peace!

               People all around the world preach peace. They ask us to keep peace no matter what the case. But the sad fact that most of these preachers don’t realize is as long as peace is a habit and not a realized fact it is a burden that we bare because of responsibility.

               People usually fight because of something other did or maybe because of something they didn’t do at the right time. But my question is if you realize that the only thing that matters is the result then matter who does the work or who doesn’t do the work, if the result is good, then you don’t have any reason to fight, No? This can help you maintain peace.

People say it’s selfishness that causes fights. But whose is it that causes fights. If I do something and my team gets the credit and my team member do not congratulate me that will be a problem is it?
The question here is why do you want to be congratulated? Is it to prove that you are important, or is that a kind of selfishness? People say it’s different. But the result, does it make any difference.

               Peace is a feeling that you will realize when your logic answers the questions you heart feels to ask. At that moment every fight that you have made every argument that you have raised just to prove your worth and importance will seem to be pointless. And that you have done for others seem worth the time.

The answer is always clear when your mind is calm and That state is called Peace.

I Realized!!....

I Realized

               In college lots of things change but what we are basically, that never changes. Not even love can change that. True love or Truth just completes it.

               In college I fell for some really special. It’s a very common thing but the interesting part about it is that during the whole time I never even had a thought about going and proposing to her. Neither did I have that nor did I wish to get approached by. Only when I got to know that she was in a relation with someone else did I think, “I should have proposed.” Then later on I tried to think of reasons of how it wouldn’t have worked out. But when I thought about it I realized something, I never liked to Love in the first place. Maybe that’s why I never went and proposed. I had decided not to love when I am studding. Then the natural question will be “Then why fall?” My answer, I fell to wait. I didn’t have a thought about proposing because I was waiting for college to be over to get a job and make things practically possible and because I hated love in college life.

               To take risks does not mean you have to be stupid, nor does it mean to forget your responsibilities.

               I can prove it to myself even more. I don’t hate my friends that are in love but I don’t like their lovers that much unless of course if they both are my friends. I will do what I can to help them.

               This is an experience how can this be A Thought for Today, some of you might think. All you have to realize is that unless you want it you will not fall in love and unless you know that this is the right time for it you will not do anything. And trust me when I tell you this these instincts that you have they are not nonsense. They are the only things that you can trust.

Love is a truth that you do so that your life is a bit more close to making itself have a feeling of completeness. 

I Found a Diary Page

I Found a Diary Page

               If you meet some grow really close and get to know thinks about him. Will you expose them to the world, by forming farces like “I am doing it for the better of the world.” Well what I am about to do is something like that. But with a slight difference I am doing this because I was asked to. Try reading!!!...

               We all experience many things in our lives. Each of us thinking that our experience is far worse compared to the ones of others. But I always think to myself. If your experience is bitter why share it. If you feel like sharing, then why don’t you share what you learned from it. My dear friend today I will tell you my experience in love.
“A classic moral love story.”

               When first so her it was nothing. Actually I was a bit rough on her. When she talked to me I didn’t give much importance. It felt like some girl who was talking to me. But when she talked again it felt good. Then my whole outlook the way I behaved to girls changed. It on her, if I am able to interact with people better than I used to. It is completely her. Then I caught the usual statement, I don’t know when it grew over me but I fell in Love. There is more to it. I hardly realized it properly until the moment when a friend of mine told me that, this girl has an affair.

I didn’t tell this friend about her or my feeling, but she understood it. That’s the beauty of friendship.

               Now then coming back to the story, I was depressed and yes it took me a while to get over it. Though I found reasons to say that it was for the better, there are some true facts. We were similar!
I was calm and quite so was she. I knew I was unstable inside but only later did I realize that so was she. We didn’t complete each other, we were part of the same equation. We never met each other unless at sea.  We would have never been successful parents because as free as she is am as stern as it can get. Yes I am a free, a bit, but not the type she is. I can understand her stands now but after marriage it will different, because when we live together if compromise is needed. Then it will be a thorn on the road. If there is a thing that I have to understand her relation to others then there is a problem. If her interaction makes me think “What?” for a second then. Life can turn into a hell. Yes compromise can make life go on. To destroy someone’s freedom. That is not love.
You will ask me where we do it. When you ask other do something, wear something, go somewhere if they have a second thought, when you can’t realize it. There you are actually killing Love.

                I know she is one of a kind and I am another kind. To mix these us just because I want to that is not Love. As pure as love should be. If there is a decision from my side she should be able to take the same decision and keep it.
I promised not to love until I am properly settled. I fell in love but then I took a decision not to propose until I have settled in properly. She once did tell me the same decision. Yet she couldn’t keep it. Too bad.

               I make promises to keep and no matter what Family will come first. Let me find a family type girl. Who is restless as she is but calm. How can more of a sense than beauty. In the case of my first love, it was not beauty that attracted me, it was her character. I still love that character. But since she is in love with someone and she sees me from a different angel I will not go to hurt her. But if she needs me I will be here.

               If she ever reads this and finds out that it is about her that I am talking about, I would like her to know this. I have seen a change in you. You are not the same to me I don’t know why. May be you got to know that I love you. Can you tell me I that’s true. If not then why?

Here is a thought!

What do you Do when You are lost?

Lets keep It simple this time. Shall we!
When you are lost there is just one thing that you have to do.

Open your Eyes!!!.....

                    It works tried it myself and it helps. When you feel lost. Say it, "I am Lost" breath and open your eyes.  You will find many ways open in front of you.

Option of Life - Love

Option of Life - Love

Yes love is an option of life. Most of us want to choose fast but the question is “why?” Why the hurry? Why do you try it? Why, do you think that love is some silly experiment to play with? No one will blame you for feeling love or expressing it but don’t take the third step of proposing and living a life together unless you can support your married life along with the entire family’s responsibilities.

You first step of falling in love is never a fault on your side. Neither is expressing your love, your second step. It’s a pleasant feeling regardless of whether the person realizes it or not.
I will give you a little tip in between if she doesn’t understand your methods there are two reasons for that (1) In another relationship, (2) for them you occupy a different post.

Yes you are free to choose whether or not to take it up. But choose to when you know that it is a responsibility and you are ready to take it up. Not just you your family your partner’s family the both of you together as a family and the generation to come.

Love in the meaning that I meant in this write up leads to marriage and marriage is not a relation between two individuals. It is a relation between to families you cultures two regions. You are a link you have to be strong enough to hold it. If your answer if no I will tell you this, Don’t experiment with love. I won’t tell you, Don’t take risks.

Love life in the living and life will give you your love for a life time.

Life’s Opportunities !...

Life’s Opportunities

               You all would have definitely heard the usage ‘Lost Opportunities’ but I believe there is no such things. You will get my reason for saying so along the journey.

            As we grow up we come across many incidents. The experiences that make us into how we are and on the way we say no, to many things. These incidents are called lost opportunities. In that position, at that mental state of yours your decision was correct because you lived on after it. Others will criticize you, that’s their job, but you have no reason to regret or to feel bad. As next time you come across such a situation your thoughts will go not just consider the two options, the choice you had taken once and another one others advised you to take, but very much more.

            You see the way of life is never understood unless you think on it. Unless you are willing to learn not just from your failures but also from your success, you will see no meaning and your first success could be your last.
Yes the next obvious question is” why?”, “why should we learn from success? If the same situation comes again we will take the same decision leading us to success again. Then why?”
It is not your goal and the end trophies that give you strength; it is what you face on the road.

            These what happen on the road are your experiences, your opportunities. Life never gives you Opportunities so that you can say no or yes to them as you please. Life gives you options so that you will know what and which to pick when you want to do something or get somewhere.