Two “Friends!” Fighting

Two “Friends!” Fighting

            One fine day she stopped talking to me. She will not even look at me. I wish I knew why. I tried to be the good friend I was without asking for the reason, without caring if she was happy with me or not.
But one fine day I lost it couldn’t hold it in, and asked “Why?” and “What?”
She sent a smiley I thought she left it behind and moved forward, back to being the best of friends we were.
Where we told each other whatever that came to our minds and whatever we felt; sorrows happiness weakness everything. The rest, ……………!

            She still didn’t talk to me when we saw each other. Not even a smile. Well she did start with small good mornings and good night. Well I had no idea what was happening. So I asked what the hell was wrong. Everything that might have gone wrong and every problem that might have occurred and every possible misunderstanding that could have occurred.
Her reaction to that, well that was something I could never imagine; I never could do that even then, such a reaction was way out of the context.

            She told me that I had crossed my limits and couldn’t see a friend in me anymore. But how can I cross my limits or can she see me as a friend if she does not even talk to me in the first place? OK all that is fine, she could tell me what lead to this conclusion.

            The point that confuses me is that she said that I have to understand the difference between Friendship and that crap that other give me. So friendship is not talking at all? Not a problem but She fine talking with everyone else very happily, even the ones she says she hates but with me its different. Not just her everyone I have as a friend is very restricted and serious in there interaction with me but with everyone else it fun zone. God Knows why. May be one day I will find out.

            Now I lost a friend AGAIN! Lost is kind of my companion but still it hurts. I am living with it, now way over it now I can understand there is a cost in being me.
“Hit me down and you will see me above the sky of your wildest dreams and highest ambitions!”
            Well that is what friends are for they bring out the best in you.
Love them for that!

How You See It!

How You See It!

            When we move on many things pass by. We think, most do, “If that was mine……”, “If it was like…..”, so on and so forth. Just think a piece of baron land, a house, a bike, a car, a shop, a phone or what you see in the mirror, we have comments about everything.

Why is that?

You don’t comment about your near and dear ones, best friends, favorite food, your phone or your much loved bike; No!
Not just that, we don’t like others commenting on them either.

Maybe you comment on Other things because,…..
You don’t care!?

When you move passed what you see is the matter and what you miss in the speed is what matters. Look closely, think on each vision.
Every House is somebody’s Home.
Every piece of land is somebody’s sweat.

In everything you see lives someone’s dream. To that I would add Just because you don’t see it doesn’t mean that it is worthless.

The real meaning of Respect is this same thing, Lets summarize all that into a small phrase shall we,
“Love not for reasons,
  Care not for Gain,
  Smile for a stranger’s achievements,
  Give a Hand not counting on what you are or will be getting back”

Be Well!