One Good Bye!!..
All your life you get friends. Some
of the became friends because you both have the same thought. Some of them
because of you both do the same kind of work. But some have no reason at all,
like in class you become friends with the one sitting right next to you, to
your left or right. Some become friends because you felt sorry for the poor
soul and helped him and you became the best of friends. From all these type of
ways in which a friend can come in, what matters most is the way in which they
continue to exist in your life. With some you will share every feeling in your
life; no not because you are week just because you felt like sharing it. Yes
but sometimes you might need a little bit of help, don’t be ashamed of sharing,
it helps you think better.
So
as we were saying; there are one you share feeling with and of course there are
the once that share there feeling with you. Sometimes, with a few, you feel
really angry and think “Am I the only person alive to whom he/she can share it
with.” But this is not always the case is it
Sometime when someone shares a
thought with you work hard, at a 100% or may be more, to get solution to their
problem. This hand full of special people are whom you never feel fed up with;
no matter how much they complain, are the most important people or friends in
your life. It won’t matter what they say about you, you will be dangerously
optimistic about them. You never want to leave there company, you sometimes
feel at home when you are with them.
But at some point of time they stop
complaining. They stop talking that much as the used to, they may stop calling
you, they might not even notice you sometimes. You will be crushed, I know! I’ve
been there I have felt it way to many times. I almost went into depression once
[I think]. But as these incidences came again and again, I became a bit more
hard cored; not that much but a bit better.
PS:
I was a pretty stupid cry baby, Not any more!
So as we were talking, When these
very important friends don’t continue to do what they used to do. What we
understand is. Our use to them is over they don’t need us anymore. We are no
longer important in there live. I thought the same about many of my friends and
I am truly sorry for that. I should have been happy for you.
No I am not saying that, they were
not really friends if they where they will not change etc. If someone comes and
goes for a specific help where your expertise are need they are not friend they
are just people. But if someone tell you every problem they face, that’s
different. I am talking about those friends.
As I told you you should be happy
when they do as I told you earlier. Them doing the above means they are getting
stronger and The only time when you really understand who and what you are is
when you get stronger. They are starting to understand who they are where they
are standing they are starting to be able to stand on their own feet. Now think
If you are a real friend wouldn’t you be Happy For them.
It’s
just that you don’t get to hear their complaints any more you get to see there
achivements. You get to see their joy. You get to be the friend of someone how
worded and is working to his or her success. If great mind say that the
greatest wars are the once which are never fought, I say the best THANK YOUs
are the once that are never said and the best AWARDS are the once which are
never got.
All friends are friends just in
different angles. Everything is worth something we just need to know what is
what. Be happy when friends start to stand alone. Every good Friend would want
only good to happen to their friend right. God Bless All Friends.
