A Level of Friendship
The
first time you see someone and try to be friends with them you talk and
interact a lot. When you start to get to know them better you talk less. Some,
at this point of development of friendship will feel that their friendship is
weakening and make topics and issues so as to talk about it. Some will feel
that they are bumped and have a chance for a catastrophe!
Trust me; this is how many friendships fail. But what I
believe is that the friendship is just evolving in the sense getting deeper
that, words are not needed much, to know each other anymore.
Now
moving on if the friendship survives this stage it evolves to the next stage
where it evolves to the next stage where you don’t talk much but you
communicate fully through a look or an expression and your conversation reduces
to a ”Hai”, “Bye”, a smile once in a while maybe, red alerts, etc. This is a
stage of final filtration when the bond between the heart and soul gets
distinguished from a simple relationship. I say this because friendship might
be a simple word but not a simple relationship, but to the unknowing.
You may ask me what is the proof that at this stage
friendship still exists. That is simple to answer; at instant of time during
this stage when you have to make a choice your first choice will be the person
and between two others will be the one coming out after comparison with this
person.
Then
again it might evolve still, to a new stage which I would call the ultimate
stage; you don’t see them talk to them or may be not even look at them. Then it
is the time when you get;
“The
vision of transparency, the harmony of Silence and the feeling of presence in
their absents.”
“Friendship,
it’s deeper than any Cavern, but still brighter than the Sun!”
