Real Feelings!......

Real Feelings!!!!.......

                Who do people take love these days. Do they just try it out just to know how it goes and if it becomes to intense and they can't handle it leave it. Or do they take it serious when things become intense. Just because someone takes you seriously doesn't make there love true. Similarly just because someone is easy going and etc. or a jolly that also doesn't make Their love a joke or a very serious matter.

                It is not the nature of the person that makes their feeling true. It is the floor on which they stood to take their decision. I started by saying about Love because It is a feeling that is present in every emotion every feeling and every thought that is born.
                We never do something against someone we have a positive tough. It hurt if something like that happens. It hurts because of love. and that hurt is the greatest gift that we can give this other person. But everyone's question will be how. You can use word. But that is only knowledge. Feeling goes deeper. That is why we use flowers to help us. These flowers have felt this pain when they got separated from its plant. It is that pain, that sacrifice that willingness that we express through gifting a flower.
                 We give flowers To Welcome; To express Love to a 'Would be', 'Sister', 'Mother', 'Father' 'Brother'; To Decorate; 'Friendship'. No one has every thought why flowers, we see the beauty part but why don't we see the meaning.
I give meaning to every action I do so that I know what I am doing. I will have no reason to stand without an answer EVER.
                 As each feeling is different we get different moods in each we will get to know them one at a time.

Successful in Love

               This Love mean love as in affair. If you marry the one you felt that strong bond towards, will you call that success; If you win the heart of your love is that success; If you over come all the opposition and win their approval also, is that success. Personally, I don't think any of this is the main reason. I believe, To fall in love when your mind set, thoughts your background family is ready to accept it, Then to accomplish the above qualifications will be success.

                You say that I will not fall in love during the time of studies and you fall in love in between what will you call it. It took me a failure to realize it, but now I know why I never even thought of proposing. Every decision you take it is yours to keep. You loose it and it does not matter to you then why take such a promise. Just know your decisions make hoe you are. Even you read this some will not feel anything. They will say I don't care, and so doesn't my love. Then why worry. The only thing that will grant you strength when you are destroyed is your heart. People can motivate you, ut your heart is always the source.

                Your society is of least concern now. I will not ask you to leave your love because of society. If you are responsible to your society you will only love within the society and respecting its methods. But my major question is, If you are not responsible to your own society then how can you be to you home and to your family? There are know different types of responsibility; one for the society and one for your home another for you Lover. All are the same at one time or the other all will get the same treatment.

What is this "You are every thing" feeling? 

               No its not just in affair that you feel that someone is everything for you. It took me My Dear dear sis Kochu to make me realize it. The feeling you are everything is an emotion that tells you, this person is someone you will trust with every thing you have. when you have to take a decision between to people or the two choices or opinions of two separate individuals, this person holds a Vito power. This need not be a lover. A sister, mother, brother, father, friend anyone ca come to that position. Don't mistake it for Love. Emotions are stronger when it is from the brain also.

What is this feeling of Fear Bravery and Courage? 

               Don't worry this is the is not the usual drama were I ask you to call in your courage from deep within you to eliminate the darkness so on and so forth. I want to tell you is that I am afraid of of a lot of things and if you ask my friends they might say that "He is quite a bold boy, nosy and irritating but he is not that afraid of type!!" To tell you the truth I an afraid of a lot of things. I am said to be a good speaker and an OK writer but you know how I do it. Its quite easy just be sure of what you are no matter what others and sometimes even what your own subcontinents says.I f you feel that you are a stupid person when you are up there then do a stupid thing for an introduction. You presentation is what you are. Be that. To be yourself is what you need courage for.

To Be Afraid is Alright
To have Bravery is a Gift

To be Courageous is a Character you have develop. It will be an asset.

You can do it I did!