Levels of Friendship!?

A Level of Friendship

            The first time you see someone and try to be friends with them you talk and interact a lot. When you start to get to know them better you talk less. Some, at this point of development of friendship will feel that their friendship is weakening and make topics and issues so as to talk about it. Some will feel that they are bumped and have a chance for a catastrophe!

Trust me; this is how many friendships fail. But what I believe is that the friendship is just evolving in the sense getting deeper that, words are not needed much, to know each other anymore.

           Now moving on if the friendship survives this stage it evolves to the next stage where it evolves to the next stage where you don’t talk much but you communicate fully through a look or an expression and your conversation reduces to a ”Hai”, “Bye”, a smile once in a while maybe, red alerts, etc. This is a stage of final filtration when the bond between the heart and soul gets distinguished from a simple relationship. I say this because friendship might be a simple word but not a simple relationship, but to the unknowing.

You may ask me what is the proof that at this stage friendship still exists. That is simple to answer; at instant of time during this stage when you have to make a choice your first choice will be the person and between two others will be the one coming out after comparison with this person.

            Then again it might evolve still, to a new stage which I would call the ultimate stage; you don’t see them talk to them or may be not even look at them. Then it is the time when you get;

“The vision of transparency, the harmony of Silence and the feeling of presence in their absents.”

“Friendship, it’s deeper than any Cavern, but still brighter than the Sun!”