FRIENDS are There!!!......

FRIENDS are There!!!......

            Friendship is a wonderful experience in life. When you know how to keep it, when you know how to behave, when you know to forgive isn’t. Because now-a-days we say keeping friendship, maintaining friendship. We sent messages like “Forward to all those who you don’t want to loose………” in Whats app, Facebook and other such social media sites. I have a feeling that most of us lost the concept of the real true hard cored friendship. If it true friendship I don’t think you will ever loose. Yes there will be set backs, fights but in the end; you already know what I am talking about
P.S: Those who have experienced the real friendship.

            Mostly we need a radio listener than a jogging companion, didn’t get it? Ok let me put it this way. We want someone who will understand our feelings and stand by our side know all about our emotions. Is this what friendship is? Or is it to have someone who will share with us their feelings, listen to ours help us comprehend respecting out view point but still conveying theirs and helping us understand the truth and help us do the right thing and correcting us along the way expecting nothing in return. And we can’t stand without doing the same for them.

            Friendship is something you have in common not just for you. If you or them, only one of the two are talking, sharing, having that feeling is that friendship. You know the most beautiful feeling in friendship. You really don’t want the other person to change.
I will tell you an easy way to change someone for the better. You just be good, no you just try to be. If there is a speck of goodness in them they will try as well. There is no good person, if someone thinks so that is just EGO. You can only try. But actually that is the greatest goodness of all. That is the level of goodness in that has to be in a relationship, in the current situation Friendship.

            Friend can come just for their gain maybe a mutual benefit but friendship comes only to give benefit to you. I want to be a good friend, a friend who would say, “I might not be much fun but hope I was able to take at least a bit of that pain in there and put back in a speck of happiness, you look better with that smile.”