One Good Bye!!..

One Good Bye!!..

            All your life you get friends. Some of the became friends because you both have the same thought. Some of them because of you both do the same kind of work. But some have no reason at all, like in class you become friends with the one sitting right next to you, to your left or right. Some become friends because you felt sorry for the poor soul and helped him and you became the best of friends. From all these type of ways in which a friend can come in, what matters most is the way in which they continue to exist in your life. With some you will share every feeling in your life; no not because you are week just because you felt like sharing it. Yes but sometimes you might need a little bit of help, don’t be ashamed of sharing, it helps you think better.

So as we were saying; there are one you share feeling with and of course there are the once that share there feeling with you. Sometimes, with a few, you feel really angry and think “Am I the only person alive to whom he/she can share it with.” But this is not always the case is it

            Sometime when someone shares a thought with you work hard, at a 100% or may be more, to get solution to their problem. This hand full of special people are whom you never feel fed up with; no matter how much they complain, are the most important people or friends in your life. It won’t matter what they say about you, you will be dangerously optimistic about them. You never want to leave there company, you sometimes feel at home when you are with them.

            But at some point of time they stop complaining. They stop talking that much as the used to, they may stop calling you, they might not even notice you sometimes. You will be crushed, I know! I’ve been there I have felt it way to many times. I almost went into depression once [I think]. But as these incidences came again and again, I became a bit more hard cored; not that much but a bit better.

PS: I was a pretty stupid cry baby, Not any more!

            So as we were talking, When these very important friends don’t continue to do what they used to do. What we understand is. Our use to them is over they don’t need us anymore. We are no longer important in there live. I thought the same about many of my friends and I am truly sorry for that. I should have been happy for you.

            No I am not saying that, they were not really friends if they where they will not change etc. If someone comes and goes for a specific help where your expertise are need they are not friend they are just people. But if someone tell you every problem they face, that’s different. I am talking about those friends.

            As I told you you should be happy when they do as I told you earlier. Them doing the above means they are getting stronger and The only time when you really understand who and what you are is when you get stronger. They are starting to understand who they are where they are standing they are starting to be able to stand on their own feet. Now think If you are a real friend wouldn’t you be Happy For them.

It’s just that you don’t get to hear their complaints any more you get to see there achivements. You get to see their joy. You get to be the friend of someone how worded and is working to his or her success. If great mind say that the greatest wars are the once which are never fought, I say the best THANK YOUs are the once that are never said and the best AWARDS are the once which are never got.

            All friends are friends just in different angles. Everything is worth something we just need to know what is what. Be happy when friends start to stand alone. Every good Friend would want only good to happen to their friend right. God Bless All Friends.