The Road That Leads Us On!!!...

The Road That Leads Us On!!!...

            I am definitely not the first person to say life is road that has junctions with infinite ways to go at each and every point. Each road that at each junction leads us to, destinies as everyone will love to call it, one road at every junction will lead to the same point but the impacts of these are always different. Take this example for instance; a boy decides to start writing.  The time and effort he has to put in at different points of life to reach a point of excellence is different at different junctions but the result is the same.

            What I meant to say in short is it is never too late to start and it is definitely never too late to try something now. it is not every morning that you will wake up with a calling to do something and you happen to excel in it and you are happy with what you do. You will have a fair share of failures and dips along the road. So what the hell! These so called failures are never failures till you decide and you convince yourself that it was a total waste of time.

            You didn’t get what I meant did you! That part that what you when through is not a failure till you are convinced that it is a total waste of time.

To keep it really simple, this is it; you are not a non-social thing that will only do what you want to do and is isolated from everyone and anything that can or already is happening. You have friends, family strangers that you see and might talk to, colleagues, business acquaintance, or maybe you are a teacher and you have stents you have to handle emotions and other issues. You deal with all these on a daily basis you are going to need a lot of experience. What you went through is just a tutorial so that you will know exactly how to help them.

            Now you know what to do with your so called failure or as I like to call them helper’s training now let’s see what we are doing and can do on this road trip.

If each second is a junction with infinite possibilities and as I have said earlier I am not the first person to say this, then that means you already know this. Why on earth are you repeating a tightly scheduled life, which you are frustrated about and not yet reached pleasant spot where what you love is what you do what you do is worth your life time and you have really lived it.

             We live a cycle that keeps spinning that we made and compline about it. Know what is to be done but not exactly doing what has to be done. To live your dreams you have to start doing what you see in them because unless you do nothing ever happens. If nothing ever happens the cycle is never broken if the cycle in never broken then you know where it will lead you.

            Consider that you are lost and that happen when you took a left a junction. When you get back to that same junction unless you take another road you will keep going around in circles. To be frank that is what I did for a while. And trust me when I say there is a tendency to get back into a loop every time I get to make a decision. But then I realize I need to set myself to find time to do what I love so that when I try to set a financially sound future, I do get to Live it with a peace of mind and happy smile; not the fake ones.

You know, as you have heard it many times if you love someone enough you will find time for them. The same goes with dreams. Unless you love them enough you will never find enough time to do them unless you find time for them you will never do anything. Unless you do something you will never be able have them as a part of your life.

            A life without these dreams means that you have never lived your life you have just been there. If being there is all you need then you will always find time to think about one thing and never find the answer to; ‘How do they do it?’

            But just because you do everything doesn’t mean you are going to find the right path really fast you have to patiently try an try and try till you can explain to anyone else why you can’t to it and convince them. Be that idiot that will try one more time after you have failed many times because every man or woman out there is that same idiot.

            If you are going to say that you don’t know where to start and that you have a lot of responsibilities here is a kick starter make list of thing you ever wanted to do. Try them one at a time again and again. Find time for this along with your daily activities as if you really love them you will find time for all of them. Your dreams need not be your calling they might be just like pressure cooker nozzles. But a calling is something that will drive you wanting to do more and more with your life . when you feel that calling you won’t stop for answers from other you will leave great tales for other to fallow even without yourself  knowing.

             So try to live your life rather than be in them. Try to live your dreams than just see them. Try to find that calling instead of just thinking of what might happen and how others are doing it. Besides all everyone is doing is trying.